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3月17日 聪明难，糊涂亦难，由聪明转入糊涂更难。
放一着，退一步，当下心安，非图后来福报也。 2月23日 鹊踏枝
昨夜西风凋碧树，
独上高楼，
望尽天涯路。
人生：一样的结果不一样的滋味。。。。 2月12日 夏天的飞鸟，飞到我窗前唱歌，又飞去了。
秋天的黄叶，它们没有什么可唱，只叹息一声，飞落在那里。 1月19日
dear若若提到about die Zeit
時間流逝是一件很恐怖的事情
更恐怖的是人們不拿它當回事。。。
~ 深思深思~
1月1日 New Year~ should write something on the first day of 2007~
so~ wish everything goes well~ and wish all my dearest the best wishes~
good luck ~ 11月22日
"...难忘恩怨难忘你，只为情痴只为真
自古多情空于恨 此恨连绵无绝期
天地有情竟白发,人间无义了沧桑 .
人面不知何处去，桃花依旧笑春风
人世几回伤往事，山形依旧枕寒流..."
时间不一定停在完美的时刻，但一定能给我真实的记录
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11月3日
Love is.........
What does Love mean?
A group of professional people posed this question to a
group of 4 to 8 year-olds, "What does love mean?"
The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone
could have imagined. See what you think:
"When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over
and paint her toenails anymore.
So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when
his hands got arthritis too. That's love."
Rebecca- age 8
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"When someone loves you, the way they say your name is
different.
You just know that your name is safe in their mouth."
Billy - age 4
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"Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on
shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other."
Karl - age 5
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"Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of
your French fries without making them give you any of theirs."
Chrissy - age 6
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"Love is what makes you smile when you're tired."
Terri - age 4
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"Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she
takes a sip before giving it to him, to make ! sure the taste is
OK."
Danny - age 7
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"Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired
of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more.
My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they
kiss"
Emily - age 8
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"Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you
stop opening presents and listen."
Bobby - age 7 (Wow!)
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"If you want to learn to love better, you should start with
a friend who you hate,"
Nikka - age 6
(we need a few million more Nikka's on this planet)
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"Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he
wears it everyday."
Noelle - age 7
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"Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who
are still friends even after they know each other so well."
Tommy - age 6
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"During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared.
I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and
smiling.
He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore."
Cindy - age 8 !
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"My mommy loves me more than anybody
You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night."
Clare - age 6
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"Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken."
Elaine-age 5
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"Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still
says he is handsomer than Robert Redford."
Chris - age 7
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"Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left
him alone all day."
Mary Ann - age 4
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"I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all
her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones."
Lauren - age 4
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"When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and
little stars come out of you." (what an image)
Karen - age 7
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"Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn't
think it's gross."
Mark - age 6
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"You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it.
But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget."
Jessica - age 8
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And the final one -- Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once
talked about a contest he was asked to judge.
The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring
child.
The winner was a four year old child whose next door
neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.
Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old
gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.
When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the
little boy said,
"Nothing, I just helped him cry"
10月4日
Stress Management
A lecturer, when explaining stress management to an audience, raised A glass of water and asked, "How heavy is this glass of water?"
Answers called out ranged from 20g to 500g.
The lecturer replied, "The absolute weight doesn't matter.
It depends on how long you try to hold it.
"If I hold it for a minute, that's not a problem.
If I hold it for an hour,
I'll have an ache in my right arm.
If I hold it for a day, you'll have to call an ambulance.
"In each case, it's the same weight, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it becomes."
He continued, "And that's the way it is with stress management.
If we carry our burdens all the time, sooner or later, as the burden becomes increasingly heavy, we won't be able to carry on."
"As with the glass of water, you have to put it down for a while and rest before holding it again.
When we're refreshed, we can carry on with the burden. "
"So, before you return home tonight, put the burden of work down.
Don't carry it home.
You can pick it up tomorrow.
Whatever burdens you're carrying now, let them down for a moment if you can."
"Relax; pick them up later after you've rested.
Life is short.
Enjoy it!
And then he shared some ways of dealing with the burdens of life:
* Always keep your words soft and sweet, just in case you have to eat them.
* Always read stuff that will make you look good if you die in the middle of it.
* Drive carefully. It's not only cars that can be recalled by their Maker.
* If you can't be kind, at least have the decency to be vague.
* If you lend someone $20 and never see that person again, it was probably worth it.
* It may be that your sole purpose in life is simply to serve as a warning to others.
* Never buy a car you can't push.
* Never put both feet in your mouth at the same time, because then you won't have a leg to stand on.
* Nobody cares if you can't dance well. Just get up and dance.
* Since it's the early worm that gets eaten by the bird, sleep late.
* The second mouse gets the cheese.
* When everything's coming your way, you're in the wrong lane.
* Birthdays are good for you. The more you have, the longer you live.
* You may be only one person in the world, but you may also be the world to one person.
* Some mistakes are too much fun to only make once.
* We could learn a lot from crayons. Some are sharp, some are pretty and some are dull. Some have weird names , and all are different colors, but they all have to live in the same box.
" A truly happy person is one who can enjoy the scenery on a detour.
Have an awesome day and know that someone has thought about you today. . . . . . . . I did. 9月20日 Liebeslied
Wo mag meine Heimat sein?
Meine Heimat ist Klein,
Geht von Ort zu Ort,
Nimmt mein Herz mit sich fort,
Gibt mir Weh, gibt mir Ruh;
Meine Heimat bist du.
Hermann Hesse (1877-1962)
English: Love Song
Where might my home be?
My home is small,
Goes from place to place,
Takes my heart along with it,
Gives me pain, gives me peace;
My home is you. 9月18日 突然意识到很久没有更新过BLOG了~所以上来小写一下下~可是又没有啥内容....所以....就先这么着好了~回头再续~~嘿嘿~~ ^^ 6月2日
Someone will always be prettier.
Someone will always be smarter.
Someone's house will be bigger.
Someone will drive a better car.
Someone's children will do better in school.
And someone's partner will fix more things around the house.
So let it go, and love you and your circumstances.
Think about it.
The prettiest woman in the world can have hell in her heart.
And the most highly favored
Woman on your job may be unable to have children.
And the richest woman you know,
she's got the car, the house, the clothes...might be lonely.
And the Word says if "I have not Love, I am nothing."
So, again, love you.
Love who you are.
Look in the mirror in the morning and smile and say
"I am too blessed to be stressed and too anointed to be disappointed!"
"Winners make things happen.
Losers let things happen."
Be Blessed ladies and pass this on to encourage another woman.
"To the world you might be one person,
but to one person you just might be the world."
3月23日 .....I forgot what it meant to cry...(我忘记为什么曾经哭泣)
.....I forgot that pretending to be happy doesn't make you happy...And that pretending to be smart doesn't make you smart.(我忘记了假装快乐不能使你真正快乐..以及假装聪明也不能使你真聪明)
.....I forot that you can't just forget the past....(我忘了过去不能忘记)
.....I forgot that you can't control falling in love, and that you can't make yourself fall in love...(我忘了远离情网不能收空自如,还有陷入爱河是情不自禁)
.....I learn that I can love....(我明白我可以去爱)
.....I learn that good food doesn't seem great, until you can't have them anymore....(我明白只有当无法再享用佳肴的时候,你才发现它的美味)
.....I learned that going to cooege means making choices...(我明白了上大学以为着做出选择)
.....I learned that it was okay to mess up, and it's ok to ask for help, and it's ok to feel like crap...(我明白了即使一团糟也没关系,向别人求助无关紧要,感情挫折也无关紧要)
.....I learned that sometimes the things you want most, you just can't have...(我明白了有时候你无法拥有你最想得到的)
.....Take the chances, and then making the most of them...(要把握没一个机会,充分利用好它们)
.....I learnd that sometimes the things we want to forget are the things which we most need to talk about...(我明白了有时候我们所想忘却的正是我们最需要谈论的)
From <I learned that...>
摘自<我明白了...> 2月19日 丸子提到的TIPS:"Don’t go for looks, they can deceive. Don’t go for wealth, they can fade away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile. "
我称之为简单的追寻,最简单实际的,最快乐幸福的~ ^_^ 1月13日
“人们最后都会死，不是也要活着么。”
“那种心情你了解吗？ 我到了陌生的火车站时，天都快黑了，没有住处，没有熟人，真孤单啊，要掉眼泪了。每当这时我便想起了你，我再也不一个人旅行了。”
“对啊，人生还能有什么，和喜欢的人一起生活就行了。你这个傻瓜，还不知道会不会发生呢，这么早担心做什么？过幸福的生活还来不及，想这么多愚蠢的问题做什么？不要回头看，也不要担心未来，努力的过好每一天就好。”
“跳舞吧，像没有人欣赏一样；去爱吧，像不曾受过一次伤一样；唱歌吧，像没有任何人聆听一样；干活吧，像不需要钱一样；生活吧，像今天是末日一样。” 1月7日 今天丸子提到:“你今天所流下的每一滴汗水，都会为未来留下高枕无忧的种子； 只有量，才有质。”我现在缺少的就是这个“量”。“人的五种德行分别是：金，代表简单、单纯、纯洁；木，代表积极向上；水，代表包容，要柔不要刚；火，代表激情、热情，激情是短暂的，热情是永恒的；土，代表脚踏实地、踏踏实实的做你应该做的。”要想更好的热爱生活，这“五行”肯定是缺一不可的。 1月2日 信徒与佛关于婚外情的一段对话
深夜，寺里一人一佛，佛坐人站。 人：圣明的佛，我是一个已婚之人，我现在狂热地爱上了另一个女人，我真的不知道该怎么办。 佛：你能确写你现在爱上的这个女人就是你生命里唯一的最后一个女人吗？ 人：是的。 佛：你离婚，然后娶她。 人：可是我现在的爱人温柔，善良，贤惠，我这样做是否有一点残忍，有一 点不道德。 佛：在婚姻中没有爱才是残忍和不道德的，你现在爱上了别人已不爱她了， 你这样做是正确的。 人：可是我爱人很爱我，真的很爱我。 佛：那她就是幸福的。 人：我要与她离婚后另娶她人，她应该是很痛苦的又怎么会是幸福的呢？佛：在婚姻里她还拥有她对你的爱，而你在婚姻中已失去对她的爱，因为你爱上了别人，正谓拥有的就是幸福的，失去的才是痛苦的，所以痛苦的人是你。 人：可是我要和她离婚后另娶她人，应该是她失去了我，她应该才是痛苦的。 佛：你错了，你只是她婚姻中真爱的一个具体，当你这个具体不存在的时候，她的真爱会延续到另一个具体，因为她在婚姻中的真爱从没有失去过。所以她才是幸福的而你才是痛苦的。 人：她说过今生只爱我一个，她不会爱上别人的。 佛：这样的话你也说过吗？ 人：我。我。。我。。。 佛：你现在看你面前香炉里的三根蜡烛，那根最亮。 人：我真的不知道，好像都是一样的亮。佛：这三根蜡烛就好比是三个女人，其中一根就是你现在所爱的那个女人，芸芸众生，女人何止千百万万，你连这三根蜡烛那根最亮都不知道，都不能把你现在爱的人找出来，你为什么又能确定你现在爱的这个女人就是你生命里唯一的最后一个女人呢？ 人：我。我。。我。。。 佛：你现在拿一根蜡烛放在你的眼前，用心看看那根最亮 人：当然是眼前的这根最亮。 佛：你现在把它放回原处，再看看那根最亮 人：我真的还是看不出那根最亮。 佛：其实你刚拿的那根蜡烛就是好比是你现在爱的那个最后的女人，所谓爱由心生，当你感觉你爱她时，你用心去看就觉的它最亮，当你把它放回原处，你却找不到最亮的一点感觉，你这种所谓的最后的唯一的爱只是镜花水月，到头来终究是一场空。 人：哦，我懂了，你并不是要我与我的爱人离婚，你是在点化我， 佛：看破不说破，你去吧 人：我现在真的知道我爱的是谁了，她就是我现在的爱人。 佛：阿弥陀佛，阿弥陀佛。 12月28日 final hour
by sam
tiny crystal never meant so much,
nor gestures could ever for so distant.
in the final hours, i know it is the last time;
though i persisted, and i cried in my heart,
but in the final hours, it all come to an end.
snow figures by the garden,
ice sculptures by the skating rink,
marks the beginning and the end of my christmases.
from then on, i know it all come to an end.
frozen winter days in solitude,
following the footsteps that we once been,
sets the tone of my hearbreak.
from then on, i know it all come to an end.
half a decade past, now i dream.
truly cherrish for the memories,
and grateful for the journey together.
but i knew it all came to an end, in the final hours
...it signified the halfway point,
lives in distant never came easy,
as voyage continues...
....externalities aside, for i am the tragedy of my device, no matter what i do, no matter where i run, it's just a fact of life, the meaning of karma all over again..... 12月8日 I know it's old...but love it...
鱼与水的完整对白
鱼对水说：你看不见我的眼泪，因为我在水中。
水对鱼说；我能感觉到你的眼泪，因为你在我心中。
我不是鱼，你也不是水。你能看见我寂寞的眼泪吗？
鱼对水说：我永远不会离开你，因为离开你，我无法生存。
水对鱼说：我知道，可是如果你的心不在呢？
我不是鱼，你也不是水。我不离开你是因为我爱你。
可是，你的心里有我吗？
鱼对水说：我很寂寞，因为我只能待在水中。
水对鱼说：我知道，因为我的心里装着你的寂寞。
我不是鱼，你也不是水。我寂寞是因为我思念你。
可是，远方的你能感受到吗？
鱼对水说：如果没有鱼，那水里还会剩下什么？
水对鱼说：如果没有你，那又怎么会有我？
我不是鱼，你也不是水。没有你的爱，我依然会好好的活。
可是，好好的活并不代表我可以把你忘记。
鱼对水说：一辈子不能出去看看外面的世界，是我最大的遗憾。
水对鱼说：一辈子不能打消你的这个念头，是我最大的失败。
我不是鱼，你也不是水。现在的我只想要一个一辈子的承诺。
可是，你负担得起吗？
鱼对水说：在你的一生中，我是第几条鱼？
水对鱼说：你不是在水中的第一条鱼，但却是在我心中的第一条。
我不是鱼，你也不是水。我们都不是彼此生命中的第一个，
可是，你知道吗？你却是我第一个想嫁的人。
鱼对水说：你相信一见钟情吗？
水对鱼说：当我意识到你是鱼的那一刻，就知道你会游到我的心里。
我不是鱼，你也不是水。我以为我对你的爱不会长久，因为那是一见钟情。
可是，我错了，感情如酒，越封越浓越长久。
鱼对水说：为什么每次都是我问你答？
水对鱼说：因为我喜欢在问答中让你了解我的心。
我不是鱼，你也不是水。为什么你总是让我等待？
难道你不知道，等待=失去信心=放弃。
如果我是鱼，而你是水，那该多好！水永远都知道鱼的想法，因为鱼在水心里。
但是我不是鱼，你也不是水。你永远都不知道我的爱，
因为我也许根本就不在你的心里。
10月28日 A Friend...
(A)ccepts you as you are
(B)elieves in "you"
(C)alls you just to say "HI"
(D)oesn't give up on you
(E)nvisions the whole of you
(F)orgives your mistakes
(G)ives unconditionally support
(H)elps you
(I)nvites you over
(J)ust "be" with you
(K)eeps you close at heart
(L)oves you for who you are
(M)akes a difference in your life
(N)ever Judges
(O)ffers support
(P)icks you up
(Q)uiets your fears
(R)aises your spirits
(S)ays nice things about you
(T) ells you the truth when you need to hear it
(U)nderstands you
(V)alues you
(W)alks beside you
(X)- plain things you don't understand
(Y)ells when you won't listen and
(Z)aps you back to reality.~~~ed UP YOUR LIFE.
10月23日
Such an inspiring poem~
~I Must Stand Tall~
The days grow shorter as time flies by,
I have accomplished nothing, though I do try;
I sit and dream of what I want to be each day,
Oh Lord, am I not dreaming my life away?
I've made up my mind so many times,
Only to fail as I travel lifes' line;
I've picked myself up, only to fall,
But this one last time, I must stand tall.
I'll try my best not to let myself down,
It means so much, this life I've found;
But time flies faster day by day,
And I must catch up, before it slips away.
Nobody said that life was at ease,
It's me and my life that I must please;
But there'll be many hard times, so I'm told,
As I stumble over the stones down lifes' road.
But in the end, my life will be at ease,
Because it was me that I did please;
But I must clear the road of nothing at all,
For to travel this road, I must stand tall!
-Marcella Lee-
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